Score for Active Relating

Move backwardsMove backwards until your curiosity – your desire – is caught by something in the roomAn objectA spaceA play of lightA relationship____________ (fill in the blank)Meet that thing (there is enough room around the center of your attention to move as you need. You are never held to something unless you want to be.)MEANING… Read More »

Dimes and Yar

my hands aren’t wingspour weight but not out into space or the floor just to the surface“forget who gave me this sweater” I remembermoving around two axis at once (dumb)an angle is made by gifting your whole bodyshiny thingsa wormhole for a frameworkencounter = see (duh) plus let self be seen which fucks up seeing… Read More »

Statement Re-write

Directions to the hotel. In a meeting, people are talking through the formation and execution of the virtual hotel event excitedly. I post notes into an empty email window, and Google auto-suggests the email subject for this fictional email as “directions to the hotel”. This sounds right. In the face of a world pulling apart,… Read More »


We, the Tender Hotel team, began the process of building the February Grand re Union issue by talking about love, care, and discomfort and what our particular interests are there, about polyamory with the Earth and rocks, and about the particular challenges of gathering in virtual spaces. We talked about where our bodies are in… Read More »

Tender Hotel

Setting the temperature Our invitations to hosts and guests at Hotel Tender. Tender Hotel is a place of warmth, care, connection, consent and love. We would like you to meet us there. This is the way of the Tender Hotel. All the room hosts have agreed to hold space in this way. All guests are… Read More »